Girls’s Day 2021 is true across the nook and ladies nonetheless proceed to be topic to derogatory feedback for his or her dressing selections. One such current incident was highlighted by 20-year-old Aaliyah Kashyap, who obtained offensive feedback on her Instagram publish the place she was sporting lingerie. “I didn’t anticipate this type of negativity within the twenty first century. We’re not within the Nineteen Sixties or ’70s,” she says .
Aaliyah, the daughter of filmmaker, Anurag Kashyap, is a scholar in Los Angeles, US, and a digital content material creator. Her photos grew to become the butt of extreme sexist feedback and rape threats. “I posted them on the finish of January and began getting ridiculous hate feedback proper after. Initially, I blocked them as I often do, however the quantity saved rising over the week. In fact, I couldn’t block or ignore 1000’s of individuals because it obtained overwhelming for me,” she says and confesses: “It wasn’t the quantity of individuals saying it, however what they had been saying that bothered me and I spent days crying.”
A week later, Aaliyah put up one other publish talking overtly about how the feedback had been affecting her psychological well being calling out the sexism, on-line trolling and hypocrisy of individuals.
What was her mother and father’ response to it? “I didn’t inform them till I put it up. However quickly after, I referred to as my mother and father to tell them. My mother learn the publish and was emotional however stated, she was pleased with me. Whereas, my dad stated, ‘It wanted to be stated, I’m glad you probably did it’.’That helped,” she says.
Aaliyah feels the judgment additionally partly comes due to her well-known surname.
“Ladies ought to really feel assured of their pores and skin and personal their our bodies. Additionally know that nothing is your fault, it’s the fault of the individuals saying it,” is her message for the women on this celebratory day!
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